Don´t support gambian men financially

I have heard stories where these women make excuses for these men; like:
He was raised poor, which is not your fault.
Oh! he does not make much money...but if he were with a gambian woman he would do ANYTHING he has to , to provide for his family and that includes a 2nd job or a side hustle.
I need to pay for the visa application, etc because he does not have the money...thats not your reponsibilty, he needs it not you.
I will pay the rent and big bills because due to his lack of education, he cannot find a good paying job...lies, lies and more lies..Gambians are hustlers..they will find a way to make money
and so many other excuses you make for these men.

As BEE stated..these men are Muslims and regardless if you are or not. He is responsible for the household, not you.....Of all of you Westerns that marry gambia men....how many of you work?.....almost all of you...well guess what....their gambian wife would not have to and if so .......she keeps all her money. WAKE UP!!!!!!!!